Shaky Daddy! Michael J. Fox... Lucky Man: A Memoir

Entwined with humor and inspiration, Lucky Man: A Memoir offers us an insightful look into the life of Michael J. Fox. This book is well written, with descriptions that allow you to visualize the events shared. The content allows us to understand the introduction of Parkinson’s disease, the effect it has, and how Michael is able to proclaim that he is a Lucky Man. I enjoyed every page within this biography, gained inspiration, and recommend the read.

Although this publication will be appreciated by many, it offers rays of hope to those dealing with chronic life changes, in particular illness. Personally I found that many of the coping mechanisms that Michael put into action when accepting his diagnosis mirrored those implemented by myself and others that I know with MS. The positive attitude he maintains, and his ability to inflict humor - toward what could literally drag another down - is exemplary of those who succeed despite the dreaded introduction of chronic illness/disease. I highly recommend Lucky Man: A Memoir and feel it will be enjoyed by many.

Lucky Man: A Memoir
Michael J. Fox
The proceeds go to: The Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson's Research

“I woke up to find the message in my left hand. It had me trembling. It wasn't a fax, telegram, memo, or the usual sort of missive bringing disturbing news. In fact, my hand held nothing at all. The trembling was the message.”

This biography is one of the best I have read. Perhaps a large part of my adoration stems from my own experience with neurological disease. I definitely know that it allows me to nod in agreement with many statements that Michael shares. I appreciate the humor he injects and often felt the content being read was replica of sitting on a cozy couch and hearing his story. This personal approach works well and allows us to realize the strength this man (and his family) maintains.

Within the 260 pages we learn about his upbringing, celebrity moments, and family tidbits. Focus is also given to explaining his diagnosis of Parkinson’s Disease, the treatment of it, how it has dealt challenges to him, and his ability to persevere thus far. At times the information provided is in-depth is sad, but it always is provided in a positive nature. Thus leaving the reader encouraged.

There were specific statements he made that mirrored the challenges I have faced while battling MS. Such as, “Things like this come along stuff has to be removed.” Oh that is so true. Speaking from experience of dealing with my own chronic illness – MS – I understand what Michael speaks of. Lucky Man: A Memoir served a large dose of inspiration to me.

In addition I gained increased adoration for this man as his ‘daddy heart’ shone through via the text provided. It is clear that Michael adores his children and that he and his wife are doing all possible to keep things in the positive light. I cried during the section in which Michael spoke about how sad it was when he couldn't hold a book steady while trying to read to his son and at other portions. But please understand that none of this is shared in attempt to sadden the reader.

There was confirmation within this book regarding open communication with kids about the ailment that a parent is dealt. I know that we are open with our children and I delighted in reading about how Michael and his family communicate with their kids.

Interestingly, a similar point that keeps us (Michael, Myself & others who choose the positive path) going is humor and positive approach. I really understood when Michael talked about being able to tease with his kids about the side effects of Parkinson’s Disease. He shared with regard to his daughter calling him shaky daddy and openly okays the approach. I think that this strand of humor might alarm some but I assure you that coping mechanisms such as this do work with kids.

You see, during one of my MS flair up periods, I encountered great challenge when descending stairs. My legs would fiercely shake. The solution was to descend the stairwells sideways. During this phase of time our church didn’t have an elevator yet. I was determined to maintain my Sunday School position even though it meant 3 flights of stairs. The joke between my girls and I became, “Froggy Legged Mommy.” Never did this offend me and I will confess that at times we started laughing so hard that I would have to set down and regain composure.

Some readers might wonder why I am sharing this information and question what it has to do with Lucky Man: A Memoir. I feel led to share with the possibility that someone might need the encouragement laced within this book, but might question if the uplifting content will pertain to them. Quite honestly we all are dealt adversity during some point in our lives and it is my honest opinion that books like this one do help.

Michael is a shining example of what we can accomplish if our mind is set toward perseverance. In addition to frank discussion regarding his battle with Parkinson’s disease we also read about alcohol related issues and a multiplicity of other life hurdles that the Fox family has endured. Overall the tone of the book is uplifting and a message for perseverance is delivered.

I do suggest keeping a tissue box close because some parts might bring forth tears. But rest assured that the humor will lift you back up.

Content
A Wake-up Call
The Escape Artist
Hollywood High
Lost in the Fun House
Reality Bites
Years of Wonders (Or: The [Real] Secret of My [Real] Success)
Like a Hole in the Head
Unwrapping the Gift
Acknowledgments

©2002 Lisa_J